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VALENTINES DAY-THE DISASTER

dear brothers & sisters!

As we know 14th February is celebrated as Valentines day.

According to history in 270A.D a person known as Mr.valentine use to arrange marriages secretly for youngsters who where indulged in so called love(ishqq) & the parents not happy with the relationship.When the ruler of that time roman emperor Claudius II came to know about these secret activities of Mr. valentine,he noticed that the atmosphere of the state is getting vulgar,and being a responsible ruler of the nation he ordered to hang Mr. valentine.Later some Christians priests gave Mr.valentine the title of martyr(shaheed) & in his memory every year on 14th feb,the day is celebrated as Valentines day by making atmosphere vulgar with yellow & red flowers.

A criminal is punished for his sins,but others instead of taking lesson from it,they are celebrating in his memory.

THIS IS TRUTH BEHIND VALENTINES DAY.

What is valentines day???

You may answer “A day full of love,love & love” .But do we know what love is?
VALENTINES DAY-THE DISASTER

Is buying a yellow & red flower & giving it to any one you find on the road is love?

Is having a coffee at coffee day shop is love?

Is wearing a provocative western style dress to please boy friend is love?

Is dancing in clubs with boy/girl friend is love?

Is chatting whole night on mobile phone with girl/boy friend is love?

Is having pre marital sex with girl/boy friend is love?

Is running away from home and marrying is love?

These are laws of vulgar education(love) which the film industry has taught & evil inspired us.how can be a human so shameless to tease or have pre marital sex with unknown.

In quran Chapters Believers 23 verse 1-7:Surely successful are the believers who are humble in their prayers,who do not speak non sense,who pay the poor-due(zakaath) and who guard their modesty (they protect their private parts from illegal sexual acts) except with their own wives or their right hand possess,and who ever keeps desire of having sex with others are the one,gone beyond the rules of Almighty God.

Chapter Noor (24:30) Tell the believing men to lower their gaze & guard their chastity,this will make greater purity for them.and Allah is aware of what they do.

Chapter noor(24:31) And to put veils over their bosoms(neck & chest),and tell them not to display their beauty in front of any strange person except their Own husbands,or fathers,or their sons,or sisters sons,or womes’s like them or their slaves or male servants by whom there is no fear of any assault to then,or the small children who have no carnal knowledge of women.

Chapter nisa(4:25) shall not have sex openly and shall not do friendship secretly.

There are hundreds of beautiful commands & guidelines from Allah in chapter Ahzaab(33:32),Araaf(7:26) & so on.

Allah has provided us with complete guidance in every aspect of our life through Quran & life of prophet Muhammed(pbuh) for whole humanity.That means not only muslims but each & every person on this planet whether muslims,hindus,Christian,jew or what everelse,they should guide themselves with Quran & life of Muhammed(pbuh)

Almighty God better knows what is good & bad for his creations and the commandents what he has revealed towards Muhammed(pbuh) for the whole humanity is to achieve success in this life and in the life hereafter.And neglecting the command will surely result in bad results.The western world has obtained their own way of life,instead of the way showed by Almighty God.And today the whole world can see the results

HAVE A LOOK ON SOME SURVEYS:

1.According to a survey of 1996 in USA every day 2713 sexual harassing cases were found.That means,for every 32 seconds 1 sexual harassing case takes place.And the 3 reason behind these cases were found through another survey are:

*provocative clothes of women

*when they are drunk

*against their will

2.Pre marital sex in America:It’s research shows by age 44,95% of Americans have had unmarried sex.It also shows that Almost all Americans have sex before marrying & has been for the past 50 years.

3.According to national survey of family growth on sexual & marital behaviours.by age 20,75% of Americans have had premarital sex & it rises to 95% by age 44.

AND TODAY……the western culture is spreading rapidly in traditional country India & the environment is getting vulgar & shameless.And we are feeling glad in obtaining this culture.

Are WE Waiting For The Same Results In Our Country?

Have a look! Pre marital sex in india,,,more than quarter of india’s youngsters have premarital sex.

SURVEYS:

1.National institute of Health & family welfare:A quarter to a third of india’s young indulge in premarital sex.17.4 &18.2 is the average age for boys &girls respectively for first sex in india.

2.counseling clinic in Mumbai:premarital sex among 18 to 20 years old in metros is 65.6% amongst girls and 63.3% amongst boys.

3.the latest crime statistics of 2004 from National Crime Bureau of india says:

for every 29 minutes 1 rape case,for every 53 min 1 sexual harassment ,for every 3 min 1 crime against women is registered.

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AIDS:one of the biggest problem world is facing today as result of all these vulgar activities(premarital sex,live in relationship & other concept world adopting today as alternate for marriages)



1.According to estimates from the UNAIDS/WHO AIDS of 2007 30.8 million adults & 2.5 million children were living with HIV.the year also witnessed for 2.1 million deaths from AIDS.

2.Around 420,000 children aged 14 or younger infected with HIV in which 90% are babies born to HIV positive womens.

3.According to one survey results,significant percentage of Americans still think HIV might be spread through kissing,sharing a drinking glass and touching toilet seat-37%,22%,16% respectively.

AMAZING TRUE FACT:the stidies says no condom can protect you completely 100% from HIV viruses.

Now you may get question,then which sex is safe.



According to Glorious Quran the safest sex is: chapter mominoon(verse 5-7)-Successful are those who guard their modesty(they protect privte parts fron illegal sexual act) except their own wives that their right hand posses,and who ever keeps desire of having sex with others(girlfriends,prostitutes,strange girls),are the one who goes beyond the laws of Almighty God.



Do You Want Your Wife/Husband To Be The Best?

Every person wants there wife/husband to be best among all.And there fore they search for good looking,rich or fair color women/men on public places,colleges,parks,shopping malls & bus stands & start playing all the tricks what they have learnt from movies,like love letter,dating,chating,going to movies,premarital sex & finally running from home to get married.But after a time period they cant manage their relationship in a proper manner which results in unhappy life and may be after few years DIVORCE.

ANALYSIS OF CRIME AGAINST WOMEN STATISTICS IN NCBI OF 2004:

1.the no. of reported incidents of cases registered under dowry prohibition act in india are 3592.

2.the no. of dowry death cases registered is 7026.

3.the no. of cases of cruelty by husband & relatives registered are 58121.

4.for every 75 min 1 dowry death case & for every 9 min a case of cruelty by husband and relative is registered.

All such cases are results of life partner whom you have choosen on bus stops,colleges & so on has no religious charactes,no fear of Almighty God & no planning of life hereafter.

ALL SURVEYS WE HAVE DISCUSSED ARE OF 2004,1995 & SO ON…..

TODAY WE ARE IN 2011.

AS WE ARE ADOPTING WESTERN CULTURE …..

GROWTH OF CRIMES ALSO INCREASED SAME AS OF WESTERN COUNTRIES



What islam says:

How to get good life partner-

Always remember the verse of holy Quran,in chapter noor verse 26:

IMPURE WOMEN ARE FOR IMPURE MEN,AND IMPURE MEN ARE FOR IMPURE WOMEN AND WOMEN OF PURITY ARE FOR MEN OF PURITY AND MEN OF PURITY ARE FOR WOMEN OF PURITY.

So be a man/women of purity and not involve in fornication,so that you will ger pure wife/husband.

Purpose of marriage-

In chapter nisa(women) verse 24:

you seek them in marriages with gifts from your property.The purpose of marriages should be love & affection but not just sex or lust.
 

So dear brothers & sisters forward this message to all your near & dears to create awareness about valentines day.



-Extracted from the Article By MOHD ABDUL WAHAB